Let’s talk about one of the biggest hurdles in recruiting for your group: making the ask. For a lot of people, inviting someone to join a group feels a little awkward—like you’re selling something.

But here’s the truth:

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You’re not selling something. You’re offering someone a place to belong.

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Here are a few practical tips to make those invitations easier and more effective:

Start With Sunday

Sunday mornings are prime recruiting time. People are already showing interest just by showing up. Try one of these ideas:

Follow Up Matters More Than You Think

People rarely say “yes” the first time. Following up is key—but keep it personal and low pressure:

Texts or DMs usually work better than emails—short and simple is the goal.

Make Your Group an Easy ‘Yes’

People are looking for safe, welcoming, low-barrier ways to connect. So help lower the barrier:

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Here is a simple challenge for this week: Invite three people to join your group this week/weekend.

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